Destination weddings have become quite popular nowadays, with well-traveled couples choosing from a variety of exotic locations, ranging from romantic sun-drenched beaches to alluring deserts, heritage castles, tropical islands, and more. This trend has grown among affluent couples who want to have a truly memorable wedding and share the moment with the people they care about. Planning a destination wedding requires great imagination and an intimate understanding of the couple’s desires, but it’s also important to be aware of the potential pitfalls that could spoil the occasion. Here are some tips:
Make the Destination Easy To Reach
- Choose destinations with easy flight connections.
- Avoid long, complicated travel.
- Ensure the venue is near a major airport.
- Consider the travel time for guests.
- Confirm transport options from the airport.
Sometimes, young couples see a beautiful and exotic location and decide that they want to have their wedding there without thinking much about the distance or logistics. While the destination should be appealing, if you and your guests have a difficult time getting there, much of the fun can be spoiled, and you may find that many people choose not to attend. The first thing to keep in mind is the distance; you definitely don’t want to be flying for 20 hours to get to a tropical island in the middle of nowhere.
It’s also important to make sure the destination is convenient for the people you truly care about and want to attend. If they are faced with multiple layovers and long travel times, you can be sure they won’t be too excited. Ensure the destination is near a major airport that most airlines service, and that reaching the actual venue isn’t a hassle.
Choose a Wedding Planner or a Package
- Hire a local planner for vendor connections.
- Planners save time and handle logistics.
- Packages are more affordable and convenient.
- Ensure the planner has local experience.
- Verify the package covers all necessary services.
If you’re planning a destination wedding that is quite far away, be sure to hire a wedding planner who is familiar with the area. They will be able to personalize the event to your taste and make sure both you and your guests have a great time. Take the time to select a planner who has experience with weddings at that specific location. Be sure to ask for references and check their performance. A planner’s familiarity with the area or even the resort will work to your advantage, as they will be able to use their local vendor contacts to help you get better deals.
If you’re trying to save on wedding expenses, for example, by opting for tungsten wedding bands instead of gold or platinum, you might consider a wedding package instead of hiring a planner. While packages may not offer the same level of flexibility, the novelty of the destination will more than make up for it with your guests. Never try to plan a wedding at a remote destination on your own in an attempt to save money. Coordinating with local vendors who may not speak English well could lead to major complications.
Verify If Your Wedding Is Clashing With Others
- Confirm the venue is free on your wedding date.
- Ask about other events (e.g., corporate gatherings).
- Avoid scheduling conflicts with large events.
- Ensure exclusive use of the venue if needed.
- Double-check for any potential disruptions.
If you’re booking a package at a resort or luxury hotel, you need to check with the management to ensure your event is the only one taking place on that date. While most standard resorts avoid scheduling multiple weddings at the same time, it’s always best to ask to avoid any disruption. You don’t want your wedding day interrupted by another wedding or a corporate meeting.
Make It a Long Weekend
- Plan events like a welcome dinner and brunch.
- Offer activities to keep guests entertained.
- Make it feel like a mini-vacation for everyone.
- Create a fun itinerary for the weekend.
- Extend the celebration beyond just the wedding day.
Since your guests are going through the effort to attend your wedding, consider making the experience even more special by organizing events for the entire weekend rather than just the wedding day. When guests arrive, typically on a Thursday, plan a welcome dinner. It’s become quite common to host a party on Friday night, with the wedding taking place on Saturday. On Sunday, plan a brunch so guests can gather one last time before heading home. On Friday, you can keep them engaged with activities that the destination is famous for. Consult with the resort management for ideas, and ask how they can help keep your guests entertained.
Send Out the Invitations Early
- Send invites 3 months before the wedding.
- Give guests time to plan travel and accommodations.
- Include travel and accommodation details in invites.
- Secure group discounts for guests.
- Follow up to confirm attendance a month before.
Even if you’ve already mentioned the wedding to your guests in advance, most people won’t book flights or accommodations until they receive the formal invitation. To ensure your family and friends can attend, send out the invitations at least three months before the wedding. This will give them enough time to plan their trip and make the necessary arrangements. If you receive confirmations a month in advance, you can secure group discounts at a hotel where your guests can stay together.